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Jason Hausenloy's avatar

+1 +1 -- quoting a little bit of cate hall here for another benefit:

"Court rejection

Ask for things. Ask for things that feel unreasonable, to make sure your intuitions about what’s reasonable are accurate (of course, try not to be a jerk in the process). If you’re only asking for things you get, you’re not aiming high enough. Jobs are a great example: Particularly if you’re early in your career, you should aim to get rejected from most things you apply for. If you have not yet learned the skill of absorbing rejection, court it deliberately: Apply for some jobs you really don’t think you’ll get so you can learn to decouple “no” from surprise and dejection.

I sent an email recently that I wouldn’t have dared try a few years ago, something along the lines of “I’m planning to start an organization similar to yours; would you consider letting me run yours instead?” The response? Crickets. Maybe that person thinks I overstepped. But it doesn’t matter, because a similar pitch delivered to someone else put us on a path to start a new organization together, something much cooler than I could have managed on my own."

https://usefulfictions.substack.com/p/how-to-be-more-agentic

Matt Handzel's avatar

+1 to the increasing confidence and getting concrete feedback on what to work on.

During a hiring round at an AIS org, I learned that "enthusiasm" and "determination" matter a whole heck of a lot. Although not getting the role, I learned that the reason is just through a lack of technical expertise in infra.

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